The boundaries are imaginary. The rules are made up, the limits don’t exist.
Life your life to the fullest. Do not be limited by the boundaries of society. “And it harm none, do what you will”. There are very few literal limits in life, and a lot of cultural and societal limits. Be sure that you understand what kinds of limits are really holding you back from where you want to be in life. Don’t sit around and wait for something to happen. Make it happen for yourself.